Just Be

A few weeks ago, I went to a MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) group. The speaker was Vanessa Shaw (who -- or is it whom?, I can never remember -- Mikele is well acquainted with, by the by) -- mommy of four littles out of the womb and one about to make a break for it -- introduced the concept of "Just Be". It was a much needed reminder and encouragement to actually BE with your kids. Imagine that. The gist is: spend 18 minutes with each child every day (18 for very scientific reasons, of course). Just the two of you. Doing whatever their little heart desires. If need be, tie the other(s) in the closet until aforementioned alone time is accomplished with the current child of your affection. I may have added that last part myself. Seriously, you'd be surprised how long 18 minutes is. And how much connection can take place in such a short (looong) period of time. And how less needy they are throughout the day having had some truly quality time with Mommy. I am ashamed to say that although it seems I spend every waking moment with them, often times I'm not with them. Her concept or whatever you want to call it, was exactly what I needed to hear. I hope, if you have little ones, you're encouraged to do the same... maybe even throw your husband in there for good measure.

Mary (God bless her!) will spend every 18 minute snuggle-o-love with My Little People Farm book. I happen to know (without looking) that on the cover of this well loved and abused book, there are two pink pigs, two blue birds, one red bird, three cows, oh no, wait is that a HORSE?!, two cows and a HORSEY!, a happy puppy dog, flowers -- oooh, pretty!, a sheep that goes baaa and another that doesn't. Don't get me started on page two.

As for Gracie and Coco... it's a cryin' shame they only have 20 places to paint.

"The days are long, but the years are short."